Thanks Greg for your input.
The short answer to "did you block full content Downloads" is yes I did. I actually forgot that this was the first symptom after the upgrade. I was continually getting the email alert:
CRITICAL: NETWORK LOAD ALERT: Too many requests for full definitions
I first ignored it thinking a) that our network could handle it, and b) that a full content download was probably needed due to an upgrade
However, I continued to get that alert, and it did not seem that the list of computers requesting the download was dwindling each time I got the alert, apparently meaning (to me anyway) that the content was not getting downloaded. Since there was nothing in the alert noting any detriment to shutting off the full content download, and I was getting bombarded with the alerts, I did turn that off. I didn't think turning this off would 'stop all downloading of definitons period' from the server, but I guess it apparently does, so I followed instructions in the email on how to prevent full content downloads.
Then about a week later when I started getting alerts about a bunch of my computers definitions were way out of date. I turned on the ability to get definition updates from the internet and ran 'update content' on my groups. This did update my definitions on my clients, but I of course still get the message that they are out of date as they continue not to get updates
I have since turned on the 'full content dowload' again (yesterday before your suggestion above), but again, now I am back to just getting the critical alerts about too many requests and seemeing to make no progress.
I checked and 'use latest available' is checked in LU policy
I will download the symhelp tool and see what I can see.
Thanks