Unfortunately, there is no way to do proximity matching when it comes to using a REGEX also.
What you can do is to write a new Data Identifier or a new REGEX that will identify both the DATE & TIME & SSN as a single entity and then have that as an exception to the policy.
This is going to take a little experimentation, but you need to MAKE SURE that the incidents that your are trying to EXCLUDE are always going to be the same format.
So off the top of my head...
To match..
2008-10-14 08:31:53.000"xxx-xx-xxxx
\d{4}-\d{2}-\d{2} \d{2}:\d{2}:\d{2}.\d{3}\"\d{3}-\d{2}-\d{4}
Keep in mind that you will need to test this out.
Also Data Identifiers and the REGEX rules use different syntaxes, so be careful of using " and other non alphabetic matches.
Hope this helps.. please call it solved if it does!