Another solution:
trying and trying to resolve the issue, this is what i found:
renaming notesext.dll make it all working good.
IMPORTANT: this issue appear to be only fr Windows 7 64 bit.
on other operative systems and 7 32 bit also, changing in notes.ini the value NSF_HOOKS=NLNVP.DLL to NSF_HOOKS=NLNVP or substituting with ExtMgr_Addins=NLNVP.DLL just resolve everything.
Poor thing (SEP)...
Symantec Support did not respond to my opened case.