Does your Remote user have Windows Firewall Enabled?
I don't know for sure, but most of the time, querying a MAC address would be done through ports 137 to 139... Not sure if Symantec uses the same standard...
I would say it's either a bad install of the Teefer2 driver or Windows Firewall issues...
But since, when you remove SEP it goes back to normal, I would think teefer2...
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Before trying to connect via VPN, does this person have an IP address? Are they receiving via DHCP or Static?