i compared the vm that did not want to image with one that did.....
i compared the configuration files
below are the things i changed to make it work
basically changed scsi to ide and bob was my uncle
.encoding = "windows-1252"
config.version = "8"
virtualHW.version = "7" CHANGED TO "6" DON'T THINK THIS WAS THE DECIDING FACTOR, BUT IT'S WHAT I CHANGED
numvcpus = "2"
scsi0.present = "TRUE"
memsize = "776"
scsi0:0.present = "TRUE" CHANGED TO ide0:0.present = "TRUE" THINK THIS MADE THE DIFFERENCE
scsi0:0.fileName = "71xp2.vmdk" CHANGED TO ide0:0.fileName = "71xp2.vmdk" THINK THIS MADE THE DIFFERENCE
ide1:0.present = "TRUE"
ide1:0.fileName = "auto detect"
ide1:0.deviceType = "cdrom-raw"
ethernet0.present = "TRUE"
ethernet0.virtualDev = "e1000"
ethernet0.wakeOnPcktRcv = "TRUE"
ethernet0.addressType = "generated"
usb.present = "TRUE"
ehci.present = "TRUE"
sound.present = "TRUE"
sound.startConnected = "FALSE"
sound.fileName = "-1"
sound.autodetect = "TRUE"
mks.enable3d = "TRUE"
pciBridge0.present = "TRUE"
pciBridge4.present = "TRUE"
pciBridge4.virtualDev = "pcieRootPort"
pciBridge4.functions = "8"
pciBridge5.present = "TRUE"
pciBridge5.virtualDev = "pcieRootPort"
pciBridge5.functions = "8"
pciBridge6.present = "TRUE"
pciBridge6.virtualDev = "pcieRootPort"
pciBridge6.functions = "8"
pciBridge7.present = "TRUE"
pciBridge7.virtualDev = "pcieRootPort"
pciBridge7.functions = "8"
vmci0.present = "TRUE"
buslogic.noDriver = "FALSE"
roamingVM.exitBehavior = "go"
displayName = "71xp2"
guestOS = "winxppro"
nvram = "71xp2.nvram"
virtualHW.productCompatibility = "hosted"
extendedConfigFile = "71xp2.vmxf"
ethernet0.generatedAddress = "00:0c:29:6d:1c:64"
tools.syncTime = "FALSE"
uuid.location = "56 4d c3 d0 14 65 ca 45-d7 94 56 31 d4 6d 1c 64"
uuid.bios = "56 4d c3 d0 14 65 ca 45-d7 94 56 31 d4 6d 1c 64"
cleanShutdown = "FALSE"
replay.supported = "FALSE"
unity.wasCapable = "TRUE"
replay.filename = ""
scsi0:0.redo = ""
pciBridge0.pciSlotNumber = "17"
pciBridge4.pciSlotNumber = "21"
pciBridge5.pciSlotNumber = "22"
pciBridge6.pciSlotNumber = "23"
pciBridge7.pciSlotNumber = "24"
scsi0.pciSlotNumber = "16"
usb.pciSlotNumber = "32"
ethernet0.pciSlotNumber = "33"
sound.pciSlotNumber = "34"
ehci.pciSlotNumber = "35"
vmci0.pciSlotNumber = "36"
vmotion.checkpointFBSize = "134217728"
usb:0.present = "TRUE"
usb:1.present = "TRUE"
ethernet0.generatedAddressOffset = "0"
vmci0.id = "-731046812"
usb:1.deviceType = "hub"
usb:0.deviceType = "mouse"
ide1:0.autodetect = "TRUE"
debugStub.winOffsets.version = "7"
debugStub.winOffsets.value = "0x88,0x84,0x18,0x190,0x174,16,416,0x22c,0x228,0x1f0,0x224,0x20,0x18,0x18,0x20,0x24,4,0x11c,0x8,0x0,0x14,0x100000,0x1b0,0xc,0xc,0x18,0x13c,0x1f4"
checkpoint.vmState = ""
floppy0.present = "FALSE"