When adding the client install package to the group, there are some settings to look out for that will help with managing the way that SEPM pushs out the upgrade.
1. Upgrade Schedule
Here you can set a time frame of when you want the upgrade to occur.
SEPM>Clients>Group (name of group)>Install Packages>Highlight install package>Right click, choose "Edit".
2. Distribute upgrade over X days.
Choose the amount of days, you would like the upgrade to be distributed by.