Thanks for your reply, its useful to have someone else confirm that ISPs don't send NDRs in a lot of circumstances. I suspect that where servers were sending them they were being blocked by greylisting at our ISP and that we simply never got the majority of NDRs - its unlikely servers would be configured to 'resend' ndrs that have been dropped at the first try.
Here's another sample header - from what you say I should assume that there is 'no such user'.
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From: MAILER-DAEMON@messagelabs.com [MAILER-DAEMON@messagelabs.com]
Sent: 13 January 2012 12:03
To: W W
Subject: failure notice
This is the mail delivery agent at messagelabs.com.
I was not able to deliver your message to the following addresses.
<mm@someorg.com>:
212.xxx.xxx.xxx does not like recipient.
Remote host said: 550 mm@someorg.com... No such user
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Return-Path: <ww@our.org.uk>
X-Env-Sender: ww@our.org.uk
X-Msg-Ref: server-7.tower-17.messagelabs.com!1326456209!34821885!1
X-Originating-IP: [7x.3x.4x.1x]
X-SpamReason: No, hits=0.0 required=7.0 tests=sa_preprocessor:
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X-StarScan-Version: 6.4.3; banners=-,-,-
X-VirusChecked: Checked
Received: (qmail 8492 invoked from network); 13 Jan 2012 12:03:29 -0000
Received: from smtp5.enta.net (HELO smtp5.exxx.net) (78.xx.xx.xx)
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Received: from SUPSER1 (remote.our.org.uk [x1.3x.xx.xx])
by smtp5.enta.net (Postfix) with ESMTP id 2D148146AD54
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Reply-To:
From: "required"
To: "M
Message-ID: <>
Date: Fri, 13 Jan 2012 12:02:51 +0000
Subject: The January
MIME-Version: 1.0
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