Ok. Remote Control is listed and working in the evaluation version of 6.9 sp2. So I think I answered my original question. It should be part of 6.9 sp2.
I am now convinced that my license file is the problem. I had to have the license file repackaged by Altiris/Symantec because I had a problem “adding” the updated file to the file that had all my node count. If I use my old license file, DS Remote Control shows back up as an option (but then I have a zero node count, again).